Why I Don’t Believe ANYTHING is Possible with Chronic Illness: False Hope and Empty Promises

How could I ever say to a large group of people who have chronic illness that they can do ANYTHING they want in life if they just believe/try hard enough/etc? How can I tell EVERYONE who has a chronic illness that their disease can’t hold them back? That everything they want out of life is possible?

Would I tell a patient with severe mitochondrial disease that they can do ANYTHING? Nope. Would I tell someone with terminal cancer that they can beat it if they want to if they just believe it’s possible? Jeebus H absolutely not! Would I tell a paraplegic that they will walk again one day if they put their mind to it? No because I’m not an idiot but people say stuff like this all the time.

All of it is insulting, empty, and centered around blaming the patient for how unwell…

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IBD: It’s Not About Poop!

Serious, damaging inflammation in the digestive tract is what causes all this poopin.’ Unlike the flu or IBS which does not cause any damage to the digestive tract, IBD can cause so much damage that parts of the digestive tract need to be removed…

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